Casting Vision For Your Children

I have been reading Visioneering by Andy Stanley and have been camping out lately on the part about casting vision for your children.  Here is a quote from that  part of the book.

The most significant visions are not cast by great orators from a stage. They are cast at the bedsides of our children. The greatest visioncasting opportunities happen between the hours of 7:30 and 9:30 P.M. Monday through Sunday. In these closing hours of the day we have a unique opportunity to plant the seeds of what could be and what should be. Take advantage of every opportunity you get.

Andy tells a story about how his dad always told him as he was growing up that God was going to do great things with his life.  And this one repeated phrase encouraged Andy throughout his life because he believed what his dad told him.  It made me think about what messages am I sending my kids.  What vision am I casting in them?  Do they hear more encouragement from me, or do they only remember me as the enforcer of toy pickup?  I want my kids to know that I believe in them so that they will believe that they will be able to do great things.

After reading through that section a few times, I have started paying more attention to how I am casting vision to my children.  I have written before about being intentional with my kids in trying to teach them about Jesus, but I think if I can cast vision into their lives, then the discipleship will happen a lot easier.  There will be a purpose behind it that is personal to them.

How are you casting vision for your kids?  What messages are you sending to them?

Seaches That Lead To My Blog Volume 1.5

I have done this before and forgot to continue posting them hence the 1.5.  I pulled this list from Google Analytics to show you how people are finding my blog.  There are some interesting results in there.  But I thought it would be easy and fun to share with you on this fine Saturday.

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Friday Weigh In Week #16

Last Week’s Weight – 272.2 lbs.

This Week’s Weight -  270.8 lbs.

Total Loss since Jan 1st – 8.6 lbs.

It was another good week again dropping in weight.  Looking to brake into the 260′s this week.  It will take some work though because I know I will be relaxing the diet a little bit tomorrow for the celebration of my future sis-in-law’s (@drainedpixie) baptism.  There will be yummy yummy pizza for dinner and of course it is my favorite, Cassanos.  So I will be mostly fasting tomorrow saving calories for dinner.  We’ll see how that goes.  It has been challenging making changes to my diet, but not as difficult as I thought it would be.  There are a lot of good healthy foods that I like and I don’t require a great deal of variety in my meals.  So meal planning for me can be simple and boring, but I am trying new things because Faith needs a lot of variety in her food.  Here is to another good week.

When You Are Spiritually Tanked

I had a day earlier this week where I felt spiritually drained.  I had spent a good part of my morning pouring my heart out into an email and then turned around and had to put in a full day of work in the office.  I felt empty and tired and it seemed like I could not get anything done.  I wanted to go sit in a big comfy chair and kick my feet up.

I prayed a lot that day relying on Jesus to help carry me through.  It was so nice to come home that night to my wife who understands how to help me when I feel that way.  On days like that it seems that temptations are much greater to lash out and say things I don’t mean or to find comfort in sinful ways to make myself feel better.  It reminded me that I need to have a plan or a coping strategy for coping with those kinds of days and moments.

My strategy for dealing with that drained feeling is to connect with other people in such a way that I am not having to pour into them.  Specifically I was able to come home and spend time playing with my kids and talking to my wife.  I didn’t jump into another project or do any housework, I just enjoyed spending time with them.

I think if I had jumped onto the next to do list item or spent time with someone who needed me to comfort them, then it would have taken me a lot longer to recover and fill back up.  I can think of some other strategies for filling back up, but I want to know what works for you.  I only expect to encounter more days like that and want to learn about other ways to get my refill on.

How do you refill your tank when you feel spiritually emptied out?

Friday Weigh In Week #15

Last weeks weight – 273.4 lbs.

This weeks weight – 272.2 lbs.

Update: It has been requested that I post my overall weight loss.  I started recording on Jan. 1st and I was 279.4 lbs.  I have lost 7.2 lbs. since then.  Although my initial weight loss began back in November that could account for about 5 more lbs. , but I was not doing the tracking that I am doing now.

It was another good week with loss of over just about a pound.  The diet part is working well.  It is most effective to force myself to count every little bite and add exercise to that.  The nice part is that I can stray a little here and there when we have special events like Easter.  I find that when I do go over and gain some back, I can usually lose the weight again pretty easily by picking right back up where I left off.  So I can eat a few pieces of candy and still continue to lose the pounds, but everything must be counted and you can get a lot more bang for you calories in healthier choices.  I did grill Salmon this week and it wasn’t bad.  I want to try Tilapia and pick up some Mahi to get more fish in my diet to help with cholesterol.  I am seeing that 270 mark coming up and figure it won’t belong before I am below that.  As I find new things that I enjoy eating and healthier recipes, I am not opposed to sharing them here as long as it doesn’t mean I will lose my man card.  I will try to only share manly recipes.  Thanks to all for the encouragement.  I hope that if you are also trying to lose that my progress is encouraging to you as well.

A New Video From My Favorite Band – Skillet

New video from Skillet – “Awake and Alive”

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Deuteronomy is Cool

I am reading through the Bible in a year and  just finished reading through Deuteronomy.  I worry sometimes that these Old Testament books are going to be boring.  Maybe that is part of the reason that I am using the Message version to read it this time.

So I read Deuteronomy 20 a few days ago and the first verse really stuck with me.

When you go to war against your enemy and see horses and chariots and soldiers far outnumbering you, do not recoil in fear of them; God, your God, who brought you up out of Egypt is with you.

I think that sometimes I forget that God is fighting for me and I am not alone.  This world can feel lonely sometimes when we are trudging through whatever the present situation we are in.  Living in faith gives us a reason for hope knowing and believing with all that we are that God is fighting on our side.  The Israelites were sitting across the Jordan River from the promised land that God was going to give them.  But they were not going to take the promised land by their own power, but by God’s power.  They were the underdogs.  I often feel like an underdog and I am thankful that I have God to fight for me so that He can be glorified in victory.

I think that I will be thinking of this verse for a while when I find myself facing myself in over my head.  I expect that to be happen a lot.

If I Planted a Church….

Ok, so I have come to realize accepted given into the idea that I should be working full time in the local church.  It scares the crap out of me to say that I believe that I am supposed to be a Pastor.  Yes, a Pastor who can say ‘crap’.  Ok, so don’t freak out.  It doesn’t happen overnight.  I keep telling myself this.  I have a long way to go.  But I believe without a doubt that God has been cultivating this within me for longer than I even realize.  In the last few years, I think I have been fighting against it not believing that it is something that I could pull off.  Of course I can’t pull it off, but God can.

So I have absolutely no idea what I am doing or how I am going to do it.  I just know that right now I have to accept this calling and allow God to lay out the game plan.  So I keep thinking about what a church would look like if I started one.  And who would want to come to a church if I planted one?

Several people that know me really well think that it is obvious that I should have figured this out a long time ago.  When I told them that I was thinking I should start planning to plant a church, they were not surprised at all.  In fact they were wondering what took me so long to figure that out.

I know that my blog community here is relatively small. (Hi Mom!  :) )  This does jump over to Facebook too where there are a lot more eyeballs.  But I guess I am looking for feedback on what you think about God using me to plant a church.  I am really trying to feel out what it would look like and how it would best serve the Kingdom of God.  So I thought that a good place to start would be with the people who read my blog.

So tell me what you think.

Good or Great?

I am really starting to figure some things out.  I am doing a lot of good things, but nothing is as great as it could be if I was focused on a few things.  Doing good things is good and can be a lot of fun while helping people at the same time.  But deep inside of me, I have this burning desire to do something greater.

So is it better to sacrifice a few good things in order to do few great things instead of doing a lot of good things?

I worry that if I try to do a lot of good things, I will get very spread out to a point where my good becomes not so good.  It also can become very time consuming and suddenly good things are competing with each other for my time.  I don’t want to disappoint.

But if I pick 1 or 2 good things and focus on them so that they can become great things, will the end result actually accomplish more?

I could cut the grass for all of people who live on my street and that would be a good thing.  But if I bought my next door neighbor a lawnmower and taught him how to cut the grass in order for him to help me cut all of the yards, it would cut my work time in half in the long run.  I could spend all of my time introducing people to Jesus and that would be a good thing.  But if I introduce people to Jesus and take more time to teach them how to introduce other people to Jesus, it could have a greater impact.

Initially, I would have a smaller impact, but eventually the multiplication factor would far outpace the former method.

I am going to start trying to say no to some good things so that I can say yes to and do great things.  What about you?  What about now?

Remembering That Friday

Lord Jesus, I am sorry that you had to suffer and die for me.  I wish that there was another way so that you could have avoided my punishment.  But I am so grateful for your sacrifice for me.  I remember your suffering today with a heavy heart.  I am fortunate to have the perspective of this side of the cross for I know that after 3 days you came back to life defeating death for me.  I live in hope because of what you have done.  Sunday we will remember and celebrate your resurrection.  We would have nothing to celebrate without your suffering.  Thank you for loving me so much that you would give up everything so that I can spend eternity with you.  I look forward to that day, but I am not in any hurry to get there.  Thank you for allowing me to serve you where I am.

Amen