I have been reading Visioneering by Andy Stanley and have been camping out lately on the part about casting vision for your children. Here is a quote from that part of the book.
The most significant visions are not cast by great orators from a stage. They are cast at the bedsides of our children. The greatest visioncasting opportunities happen between the hours of 7:30 and 9:30 P.M. Monday through Sunday. In these closing hours of the day we have a unique opportunity to plant the seeds of what could be and what should be. Take advantage of every opportunity you get.
Andy tells a story about how his dad always told him as he was growing up that God was going to do great things with his life. And this one repeated phrase encouraged Andy throughout his life because he believed what his dad told him. It made me think about what messages am I sending my kids. What vision am I casting in them? Do they hear more encouragement from me, or do they only remember me as the enforcer of toy pickup? I want my kids to know that I believe in them so that they will believe that they will be able to do great things.
After reading through that section a few times, I have started paying more attention to how I am casting vision to my children. I have written before about being intentional with my kids in trying to teach them about Jesus, but I think if I can cast vision into their lives, then the discipleship will happen a lot easier. There will be a purpose behind it that is personal to them.
How are you casting vision for your kids? What messages are you sending to them?