Top 5 Posts from 2010

I thought that I would look back and see what you guys liked reading from 2010.  Here are the top 5 posts ranked in order by page views.

  1. Hold On by Rapture Ruckus
  2. NY2LA Video by Press Play
  3. Apple Says No To Cash
  4. Global Leadership Summit Notes on Bill Hybels
  5. Something Beautiful by Need to Breathe

It looks like music gets a lot of attention on my blog.  Maybe I will try to do more with music in 2011.

Did you have a favorite post that you remembered reading this past year?  If so, please share.  If I can learn what you liked reading, I can try to write more of the same kind of topics.

Ephriam’s Christmas Performance

I had the pleasure of visiting Ephriam’s school yesterday to watch his class do a little Christmas performance.  It was so funny.  The video is below.  Each student got to have a dance solo for each song and they are dressed according to their song.  Ephriam is on the far left and is dressed in a Mexican outfit.  It is a longer video of 8.5 minutes, but very funny.  Enjoy!

Christmas Cards

Do you still send Christmas cards?  It seems like I see fewer and fewer every year, but we send them out every year and out list keeps growing.  I mailed 49 this year.  I was lucky enough to find a way to get free cards through Shutterfly this year for a blog post about their cards.  I paid for shipping for the cards and I had to pay postage to mail them out.

Anyways, there are many of you out there who I only have electronic addresses for so I am not able to mail you a real card.  I thought I would post our card here for you to see and wish you a Merry Christmas.  I wish that I could hang out with all of you in person, but I wouldn’t know most of you if it weren’t for blogging.  So here is our Christmas card for you to enjoy.

The Gospel According To Jesus by Chris Seay

Disclaimer:  I received this book for free in exchange for a review on my blog through a program called Book Sneeze.

I just finished reading ‘The Gospel According To Jesus’ by Chris Seay.  It was not quite what I initially expected and it had a lot of theological talk that was a little over my head, but there are some great truths in this book.

I dug right into the first chapter about righteousness.  Seay addressed the issue of righteousness of rule following verses righteousness of relationship with Jesus.  I don’t know what church you go to, but all of our churches have rules.  Rules are not necessarily bad, but when they become our path to righteousness then there can be a problem.

Paul is very clear in the book of Romans that our focus must not be on the tireless struggle to do the right thing; that will only exhaust us.  The law and the rules are a constant reminder of our failure to deal with our sinful nature through our own wills.  But a miraculous thing happens when we fix our attention on King Jesus and his kingdom: God begins to work out his righteousness through us.

I grew up in a church where from my perspective it was all about the rules.  I never grasped the idea that I could have a real connection to Jesus.  He really felt untouchable to me.  I could pray and make requests, but I never felt like I was worthy of him answering my prayers.  It was more like a lottery to me.  I would pray and hope I got lucky.

Seay touches on how our connection with Jesus is absolutely necessary.  Without that, we are just rule followers with the single purpose of saving our own skin.  Jesus does not want us to live self serving lives that are safe and comfortable.  He wants us to love others even if we have to get dirty to do so.

He ends the book with a chapter called, The Ten Commandments of Shalom Life.  He describes these as practices that, “leads us out of brokenness and into a Christ-centered completeness.”  I liked that it gave me something to act on now that I have completed the book.

There was a lot in this book and I feel like I will need to read it again to try to digest everything.  I felt it was a heavy book for me because of the number of ideas that were presented.  If you are looking for something to think about and are prepared to do some self examination, then I recommend this book to you.  Be prepared to work through it.

You can pick up the book on Amazon through this link.

The Gospel According to Jesus: A Faith that Restores All Things

How Far Is Too Far?

I posted a message last week on Twitter and Facebook about how my wife’s stinky gas forced me to leave the bedroom while she was napping.  I admit this may have been pushing the TMI department, but I felt it was noteworthy because usually it is me stinking her out of our room.

I realized through some friends comments on Facebook that if I was married to other people, then this would probably get me in really big trouble.  This reinforces the best decision that I ever made, to ask Faith to be my wife forever and ever.  Because she doesn’t really care that I share weird real stuff about us.  Now I do have some limitations.  I do not share intimate things that are intended only for the two of us.  I do not spout love sonnets across the Internet because those things are for her and her alone.  I don’t share things that I think are boring.

I do promise to do my best to be as real and authentic with you as I can.  My life is far from perfect.  I am not trying to portray something online that I am not.  I try not to complain too much.  I don’t use the Internet to masquerade anything.  I just use it as a tool to share whatever it is that my life is with anyone out there who cares.

So how far is too far for you on the Internet?  How real and authentic are you willing to get with people online?

I will note that there are dangers to sharing certain information, but I don’t see anything wrong with telling your story so that the world can see it.

How Low Can You Go?

This is the first time I have ever been unemployed at Christmas time.  So we have been looking for ways to cut back our spending to try to save a few bucks here and there.  So this year, we are trying to save on our heating cost by setting our thermostat lower.

Right now the house is set at 66 degrees.  It feels colder in our house than I can ever remember.  We really like it hot.  We don’t turn our AC on in the summer until the house gets up to 85.  Usually our heat is set at 72, so this is a big change for us.  I want to find some fingerless gloves that will let me type on a keyboard without my hands freezing off.

Are you one of those people who try to hold back the heat in the winter to save money?  How low do you set your thermostat and how long does it last?

Checking In

Confession:  As if you didn’t notice.  I haven’t been blogging much lately.

My only excuse is that things have just been really busy lately.  We are 9 days from Christmas and there are still so many things to be done.  I have been working about 20 hours a week at church, but today I am staying home with the kids on their snow day.

So I thought that maybe I should check in on the blog.  So here is a little update on life.

Job Hunt:  There is not a whole lot going on there.  I am applying for jobs that I think I would like to do, but I am not just going to apply for any job just yet.  AKA, I haven’t applied at Walmart yet.

Work:  I am working part-time as an unpaid intern at Vineyard Community Church with their Student Ministries.  Currently I am redesigning the high school side of their web site.  I am also running the weekend services on the tech side.  I make sure everything is working and fix problems on the fly during services.  I am also working on small group curriculum that will supplement the upcoming series in January.  I am still leading my small group and loving every minute of that as well.  If I could continue to do this job for free, I would.  But at some point, I will have to move onto something that can help me to pay the bills.

The Kids:  When I am not helping at church, I am busy chasing and entertaining the little ones at home.  They are both enjoying school and super excited about Christmas.  I guess that being my kids comes with a healthy dose of the Christmas spirit.

Faith will be starting her clinicals in February.  This is a half a year earlier than projected.  This is great news as she will get done with school sooner, but the chaos of life when she is working full-time and going to school almost full-time will also come sooner.

God has been so very faithful to us in the past few months.  With a tight budget and the desire to spend crazy amounts of money on people at Christmas, it has been challenging.  But God has provided for us in miraculous ways.  You know those stories where people pray to God and ask for help with a financial crisis and then money shows up from somewhere.  It really happens.  God is faithful and stays true to his promises.

I still don’t have any answers about how things are going to turn out.  My hope is that my time with The Vineyard will help me to find a similar job where I can serve God with the gifts and passions that I have.  Ideally we need to stay in Cincinnati so that Faith can finish school.  I trust that God has it all worked out and that understanding isn’t my place.  I am just doing my best to live it out and follow where God is leading me.

A Year of Discipline

Discipline is a word that I love and hate at the same time. I love it because it helps me to guide and correct my children. I don’t love when I have to discipline them, but it is a necessary tool that works. BTW, I am a spanking parent. If you have a problem with that, leave a comment. I like debating.

I don’t like discipline when I am the one who screwed up. I respect it, but I just really hate it when I screw up.

But discipline has another meaning. When I think of discipline, I also think of the time it took for someone to learn a skill or behavior. To say that someone has mastered a discipline gets a lot of respect from me. I find that I have a harder time learning things as I get older and disciplines are much harder to keep in good practice.

This thought led me to an idea that I am going to throw out to all of you. I know that I want more discipline in my life in a lot of areas. So I have an idea to help me and anyone who is interested to practice certain disciplines for an entire year. Ok, so I even think it sounds a little crazy, but here are the details.

There is a book called, Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth by Richard Foster. I have read it a couple of times. It is a book that breaks down 12 spiritual disciplines into 3 Categories. This book dives into these disciplines in detail, teaching about their meaning, purpose, and how to practice them. I want to examine 1 discipline a month and commit to practicing it. Each month of the year, we will add a new one and work our way through all 12.

I want to work through this with a group of people and use the tools of technology out there to connect with each other and share our experiences. I expect the group to be committed to completing this together. I also expect accountability from the group. This should not be a large time consuming thing as you will mostly practice things on your own. But I will be planning ways for the group to connect online in simple ways.

Let me know if this sounds like something that you would be interested in. This is not for everyone, but I hope that you decide to join me on this adventure.

Mobile Blogging

I am typing this on my IPod Touch. Thinking that I may be able to work on the blog while I am on the go now. I am at a Christmas party right now for church volunteers. The best part is I get to have a little date with my wife while somebody watches our kids for a bit. I love date night.

Fixing The Problem

Everywhere that you go there is a system.  Some of them work and some of them not so much.  Systems that don’t work bug me a lot.  But what bugs me more is when people know the system is broken, but they don’t actually fix the problem.  We will spend time and resources to get it functional, maintaining, band aiding, and duct taping the problem.  But it won’t be long before it is broken again.

Why don’t we just bite the bullet and fix the system?  Sure it might mean some down time.  It might mean some inconvenience.  But in the end it will be better and it will actually work.  Its like road construction.  It sucks!  But when it is all completed and the additional lanes are available, it is so nice.

I am willing to withstand some inconvenience if you would just fix the system the right way the first time.

Dear businesses, churches, and governments,
Please identify the problem and do what it takes to fix it.  Ultimately this is the best thing to do for yourself and the people that you serve.  Quit bickering about time and money and figure out exactly what it will take to solve.  It might take longer than you like.  It might cost more than you want.  I don’t care.  Please just figure it out.  I am tired of systems that are held together with duct tape.  And just so you know, I really love duct tape.

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